It is with certainty that many relationships end due to selfishness. What makes a relationship become unbalanced? The following are five types of ' selfish shifting. Are you selfish? Do you get upset when things don't go your way in your relationship? Do you expect your partner to hang on your every word and do whatever it. So, apart from avoiding the torture of a selfish lover, if you find yourself in a relationship with one, what can you do so that your entire being is.